Fed up

January 29, 2010

I’m officially giving up on submissive men. Fuck them all. They are selfish and even worse, manipulative and sneaky. I can’t trust a submissive man. His desires drive him in such a way as to scramble his ethics. I hate dishonesty above all else and for some reason, the submissive men I’ve met couldn’t ever be fully honest with me. (FYI: Deceit by omission counts as lying).

I don’t want to deal with men who keep back-up dommes on the side in case one doesn’t meet their expectations.

Look, I’m a person, not a goddess. I make mistakes. I have personality flaws. I don’t always do or say the thing you want me to do or say. And I’m fucking busy now so I can’t cater to your every submissive whim these days. But none of that justifies you meeting other women on the sly, or taking up with one instantly after deciding things with me weren’t going to work out (without informing me of this decision either).

I have feelings, asshole.

So I’m done. I’m tired of being objectified. I’m tired of being faced with unreasonable expectations and demands. I’m tired of being hurt. I’m just. So. Damned. Tired.

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3 Responses to “Fed up”

  1. W Says:

    Oh, hell….

    Maybe you can find a good vanilla man, and “turn” him?

    -W


  2. That’s probably what I’ll end up doing. Pretty much all the kinky guys I’ve met have been sketchwads. It might be easier to find a decent vanilla boy with undeveloped kink or sub tendencies than to find an ‘out’ sub man who is also a good and honorable person.

    And no more internet-anything. Men on those sites seem to think they’re shopping for a new accessory than meeting actual people.

  3. W Says:

    Hurrah for corruption of the innocent!

    -W


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